Back off and go with something smaller, like one less finger or a smaller toy. I asked her and that is what she told me. Maybe buy some anal beads. Your not out of luck! To fast just go slow you can't suppress the booty you must ease into the first injection of the pleasure cane or really relax in the beginning. One of the common misconceptions is that anal sex will hurt, weaken or damage the anal muscles. The same thing can happen with numbing creams.
I some times let him finger me while he goes down on me and he likes it as well.
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I like anal better than vaginal sometimes cuz the orgasm is off the chain!! Gents also have the equivalent of a g-spot the prostate. This sex act won't benefit from rushing or being impatient. We heard you loud and clear: It hurts, but you know you still love it. To Much for me says: Thank you for your comment, we will review it as soon as possible.