My sadness and I are now good friends. It reminds me of walking in a forest and the moment I realize a deer is watching me. Everyone is continually growing in their ability to process their experiences and enjoy life to the fullest. Because you cannot fully express yourself to her. To show my partner it is safe for him to express the depths of his sadness when it needs to come up. Rather, simply seen for what it really is, a release of immense emotion.
And all I wanted to do, instinctively, was pull him toward me, lay his head on my chest, and tell him everything was going to be okay.
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I have always felt deeply and had big emotions, which I have definitely sub-consciously associated with being a woman. Besides, sadness — like happiness and every other emotion -is purely energy that needs to move. To show my partner it is safe for him to express the depths of his sadness when it needs to come up. The exact question I asked them was: After several years of actively suppressing my feelings, a particularly traumatic year washed over me and I began to crack open. Do you have a discount code? It took trauma plus a friendship with a very emotional roommate to make me start to become more comfortable with my own emotions.